Some couples are just not meant to be. We’ve all been there ourselves or seen friends stuck in a relationship that isn’t healthy for either person involved. The question is: When do you know when it’s time to call it quits? Here are a few obvious signs that you and your partner need to take a permanent break.

1. One of you is trying to change the other

While there’s no such thing as the perfect partner, if you created a laundry list of things you’d like your significant other to change about themself, this might be a sign that your relationship is just not going to work of you is trying to change the other